One tip in this position is for the bottom to arch their back and adjust where they are on the penis to make sure it’s as direct a hit to their pleasure zones as possible.As a result, the bottom can potential experience posterior pelvic pain this way because the penis may be repetitively hitting “a wall”.Because most penises are either straight or curve upwards, it can be difficult to achieve prostate stimulation in this position because the angulation of the penis will most likely be towards the bottom’s tailbone, which is opposite from the prostate.This also allows the bottom to be a little more submissive. If you’re a more flexible and advanced bottom, change up the position by laying back on top of your partner’s chest and letting them grab your legs and pull them up towards your chest, allowing them to take control of thrusting. You may find that based on your internal roadmap (your anal canal), reverse cowboy may be more or less pleasurable. The curvature of the top’s penis is key here as this position can feel very different for both parties than traditional cowboy. This is just like the traditional cowboy position, except the bottom faces away from the top. Another possible concern is that the top can injure and even break their penis if the bottom is actively riding on top and slips off the penis or moves incorrectly / at a sharp angle.However, if you have mastered the concept of proper pelvic angulation, by moving forward or back on the penis, you could cause trauma to the prostate, resulting in prostatitis.Depending on the bottom’s pelvic angle, because most penises point up when erect, this is how the bottom can achieve optimal prostate stimulation.The potential downside for tops is that they have to relinquish some control and be more submissive in this position.If you’re naturally more submissive, you’ll have to get out of your comfort zone. The potential downside for bottoms is that they have to be more active.The bottom can more easily control their pelvic angle in this position, based on their own anatomy.On the other hand, if you’re not new to bottoming, you can use this opportunity to be more dominant, while your top can be more submissive.
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